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Hi people, I know it's been a long time since I posted something. But, please try to understand that I write whenever I draw something good from my experiences.  I want to discuss about anger today. I must remind every one that these are again my own views and you can always counter me through the comments.  Have you ever thought of why we feel anger in this beautiful world?..... Well the first thing that comes to our mind is that when things don't go the way we expect them to. We also feel anger when our ego is hurt. It is true that anger causes a lot of troubles for us but one can also draw energy from anger instead of fueling it. I know it sounds kind of weird, but yes try it once....the next time you are angry, just hold on to that state for 60 seconds. You will notice a change in your energy pattern for sure. The next time you want to hit someone or abuse someone, just wait for 60 seconds before doing it an then try doing it with all the energy you have. I will not reveal...

Hello people, I know it's been long since I last wrote something on this blog but college is a place where it is going to be difficult to post many things so please cooperate with me.  Today is a short note on our school uniform...for those who do not know, the shirt was blue in color and the pant brown. The blue color as I now realize was to make every student look approachable. The blue color is considered to be soothing and provides a level of comfort to the viewer. This was clearly to say that " you can approach me for any help". It is a very good sign as it shows how helpful the students are. It also creates the environment so that, anyone approaching for help feels comfortable. And I can give you a guarantee that the students be it new or ex, have always stood true to these colors. 

Kal tak to soocha tha ki bhula diya hai tumhe,  magar dil ko rula diya ek chooti si baat ne. Chaha tha ki kabhi yaad ab nahi karunga, par apne dil se hi kaise main ladhoonga.  Maarna to chaha tha is dil ko, daar tha ki pata na chaljai sab ko.  Ab tak to sab theek hi chal raha tha, kal doston ki zid ne ise kar diya zinda.   Unhe shayad hi maalum ki kya kiya hi unhoone, anjaane main ek ghao khureta hai unhoone.  Ab phir mai wakt ko ise theek karne dunga, tab tak iski  aag main mai jalunga.  Kuch bhi karunga magar rakhunga ise tumse door, bhanak bhi na lage iski tumhe lage rahoonga isleye tumse door.  Mere gam se tum door hi theek ho, kanto se door tum phoolon main theek ho.  Jidhar bhi ho bas kush hi rehena, dukh tum mujhe sehne dena.  Abhi na mil sake ham sahi, par milna to hoga hume tumse hi. Milne ka vaada karte hain tumse hi, zaroori milenge jab wakt hoga sahi. 

Hi all... First of all ..to all those who are reading this because of the title, STOP immediately. That is because the love I am going to talk about is in a completely new perspective, many talk about it, but very few understand it. So I would suggest that you turn to something more interesting than this if you do not like to read such stuff related to studies. Yep! You got it right, today I am trying to compare the life of a lover to that of a student or learner. Your comments will tell me how nicely I have managed to do that.  Ok it all starts from school....all new stuff, lots of things to learn tests to take, failures to face, successes to embrace and all sorts of things. Look at the life of a teenager..lots of friends, fun things to do, quarrels, arguments etc.. This life goes on till the person reaches higher studies. During higher studies, we focus on a particular subject say science, commerce etc. similarly as time passes we also develop a particular liking towards some fr...

  Happy Birthday Jayant !!! Please don't be mad at me...I tried my level best, you see now this proves that I am not good at making portraits. Anyways, many many happy returns of the day....and ....Enjoy...

https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=300595010117400&id=299925516851016 This is not just a poem guys. This is written from the deepest corners of my heart. 

Hi all, First of all I would like to congratulate all those who made it to the IITs. And those who could not make it, I would only say that life does not end here.  You all must have heard this almost a million times.but it is hard to believe it as we all have spent more than two years preparing for this moment. I would just tell you that the hard work done by you has not gone waste. In fact I can give you a 100% guarantee that there is something much better up ahead waiting for you. I expect that you bear with me. I know that most of the people would have closed their browsers by this time or moved on to something much better than this post of mine. But for all those people who are still reading, I thank you with all my heart for going through my posts even knowing that you all are much better than me. I must appreciate this down to earth nature of all my friends out there ( not that those who do not read my posts are not down to earth....). It is to all my friends as I find mysel...

Hi all, I have now started uploading videos on YouTube too...the name of my channel...Bhabesh Rath..

I never wanted this day to come, I would have loved to avoid it and run. But this confession had to come someday, there was no escaping it any way.  Many ask me why I laugh so much, most of them consider me mad as such. I have no problem in being called mad, but this self introspection makes me sad. So today I tell you what you will never find, it is about me that you must keep in mind. Because I do not want you to misunderstand, and generalize these lines that I write with my hand, I have many friends and they stay with me, but what they have got into they never see. The reason why I laugh is just to mask, the infinite pain and sorrow so that you never ask. Because reasons ,I shall fail to give, so I ask you to kindly forgive. This so called friend of yours, gives you a chance to walk out right through the doors. To take a path that leads away from me, and escape from this stormy sea. This endless, dark and gloomy well, is the result of my deeds as you can tell. Disappointing most...

Hi guys,  I know it's been a long time. But I could not stop myself today, watch this video and see if you feel the same: http://youtu.be/1COqzLYLE0o After watching this video, my heart screams at the top of its voice, compelling me ignore all reasoning provided by the brain. And it's only one thing "WHY ?". Check this out this video: http://youtu.be/OLZJ-E2CWuw A cool video to clear things out.  This clearly shows the other side of this world. Hence we realize that both sides exist side by side.  I did want to write on love which is criticized to a great extent but then love is something too pure and cannot be expressed through words.  I will soon put new posts on more writable topics soon, till then..... Adios. 

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Hi all I recently read this shared by a friend of mine.....   A man sat in the audience and cracked a joke. Everybody laughs like crazy. After a moment, he cracks the same joke again. This time less people laughed. He cracked the same joke over and over again. When there was no laughter in the crowd he smiled and asked : "You can't laugh at the same things again and again, but why do you keep crying over the same things again and again?"  Well from the looks of it, yes it might sound very true yet I do not agree with the person who said it (no offence). Allow me to take some of your spare time and explain my views on this. Crying represents two major feelings in you. One, when you feel completely hopeless, you feel that  your world has shattered in front of you, all your efforts gone down the drain and you feel the presence of a void around you. Two, when you are angry that is, your ego is hurt, your pride shattered and you feel as if you are in a volcan...

Hi all I don't know where this topic came from but I want to talk about depression today. We have heard a lot about depression, bullying etc. etc.... Many of us have even experienced it (trust me I don't know )yet it is always related to the negative side.  Here is my take on depression although I have never been through it. I do feel sad when something does not go according to my expectations or my ego gets crushed horribly ( that is something that has happened a lot of times but today I cherish those moments, I am what I am because of my failures and I love every bit of it). What I feel is that depression is just your energy getting suppressed to such an extent that you feel the actual void that is in your heart. Although the void exists all the time but we barely notice it. Ever felt like wrecking the whole place or destroying everything that is in front of you? Well that is what I call energy being suppressed, this anger generally gets released on near and dear ones and nex...

Hi all, First of all let me congratulate all the people who have qualified mains. And all the best for JEE Advanced. These two years have really tested us in various ways and life will continue throwing challenges at us. The difference occurs only when we see the beauty in these challenges and accept them with our arms wide open. Fear not the result and live today.  We might do all the above mentioned things. But what we do not realize that there I some constant force that is always behind our back supporting us. Yes, is parents that I am talking about they do all the work they can to keep us happy. The pains they bear are a million times what we go through and the most interesting part, they do not let us even realize what they are going through. Right now if you are thinking that my parents are different, then let me tell you that you are wrong, you just do not know. They are all the same, ready to tolerate the fires of hell so that their children can have all their wis...

Hi all, I seriously do not know how to put this. Please bear with me because I write this mail with complete mixed up emotions. I know I must be eating up a lot of your time, but trust me people this might help you. As a parting word I leave or to be more precise pour out 5% of my raw emotions in front of you. I know right now that I am trying to talk to a batch of high scorers being the lowest scorer (that makes it more difficult) but know this people I am not ashamed of myself and tell you whatever I am going to keeping my failures in mind. We have been in the same class for two years and I have seen fun loving kids turn into totally serious adults.People please, this is my request to you that come what may in life be it success or failure, DO NOT KILL THE KID THAT IS IN YOU. Your childhood dreams  are what will guide you through your life.  I do not ask you to burn the midnight oil or work till you drop dead just because you have to. Listen to your heart and you will find ...