The CRY and Why

Hi all
I recently read this shared by a friend of mine..... 

A man sat in the audience and cracked a joke. Everybody laughs like crazy. After a moment, he cracks the same joke again. This time less people laughed. He cracked the same joke over and over again.
When there was no laughter in the crowd he smiled and asked :

"You can't laugh at the same things again and again, but why do you keep crying over the same things again and again?"



Well from the looks of it, yes it might sound very true yet I do not agree with the person who said it (no offence). Allow me to take some of your spare time and explain my views on this.

Crying represents two major feelings in you. One, when you feel completely hopeless, you feel that  your world has shattered in front of you, all your efforts gone down the drain and you feel the presence of a void around you. Two, when you are angry that is, your ego is hurt, your pride shattered and you feel as if you are in a volcano with all its magma around you. The heat you feel charges you up for your task, whatever it might be, to gain your lost pride. Crying for a long time or many times will make your tears go dry but it is then a person realizes that he is different from these feelings.
In life no situation is repeated. Even those which might seem to be repeated have a twist in them. A person can get bored and stop laughing at the same joke but life never does that with anyone. The simple reasoning for this is that if life would become repetitive, then all of us would get bored and humans would cease to exist due to this extreme boredom. That is why it is said that life is full of  surprises, it is true and we must learn to live and enjoy it. The first time we face a situation where we fail miserably, we do cry. If it repeats we cry even more saying that why does it happen to me or I am completely useless etc. etc...Basically the first time you experience the sadness as yourself  or inside you. The outcome of this would be that you either blame yourself or others for your current situation. If that thing in which you failed is something important, you would repeat it. If you fail again, you would cry, this time feeling even more helpless and alone. But if you probe a bit deeper you would find that this depression is around you and not in you. This will strengthen you and your tears will automatically stop. Then, even if you want, you wont be able to cry. Well in the second case if  your ego is hurt (well actually your ego interferes in both the cases but the difference still persists) at first you will be very angry and might even assume the so called, destructive mode (to be precise, that is what I call it) but, when your ego is attacked multiple times and you fail to save it from getting shattered, you automatically leave that ego which gets shattered easily. Well, it might sound a bit weird but yes true ego is untouchable and invincible, there can be exceptions though (I pray to god, may these exceptions never occur with any person).
Finally, summing up, we never face the same situations in life and even if they appear to be the same, there is always a hidden meaning to it, only if we manage to go deep and try to observe.

So next time you cry, just remember that every cry has a hidden meaning and a lesson. All you have to do is stand aside and observe yourself in that state.

P.S. : Please pardon me if my English doesn't sound correct or up to the mark. It is just, that I am trying my best to put things that cannot be expressed through words, in front of you to help anyone who might need it.
Dot forget to comment, I will be pleased to go through your views.